When we’re replying to someone, we can use the word “henji” ! Be careful though: there is a different word for when we replying to things like emails and texts.
Example Sentences
First, let’s try…: “When I asked him if he’s cheating on me he didn’t reply….”
Now, let’s make a word bank:
| English | Hiragana / Katakana | Kanji | Romaji (reading) |
| Him | かれ | 彼 | Kare |
| To cheat on someone | うわき・する | 浮気・する | Uwaki suru |
| *To ask (conditional) | きいたら | 聞いたら | Kiitara |
| To answer | へんじ | 返事 | Henji |
| To do someone the favour of (negative, past tense) | してくれなかった | N/A | Shitekurenakatta |
*There are a few different words to say “to ask” in Japanese, however I’m using the more casual verb here!
Now, let’s write it out in romaji!:
” Kare ni uwaki shiteiru no ka to kiitara, henji shitekurenakatta. “
Let’s change it to hiragana:
“かれ に うわき している のか と きいたら、へんじ してくれなかった。”
And lastly, let’s add in the kanji:
”彼 に 浮気 している のか と 聞いたら、返事 してくれなかった。”
What if we want to say… “You shouldn’t make him wait for an answer to his confession….“?
I’m going to make this sentence a little bit more formal that what we would normally see between friends, just so we can get a feel for the grammar!
Now, we need a word bank!
| English | Hiragana | Kanji | Romaji (reading) |
| Confession | こくはく | 告白 | Kokuhaku |
| Reply | へんじ | 返事 | Henji |
| To make someone wait (te form) | またせて | 待たせて | Matasete |
| Can’t do | いけない | N/A | Ikenai |
Now that we know all of the relevant words, let’s put them together in a sentence!
First, in romaji only:
“Hokuhaku no henji wo matasete wa ikenai yo.”
Now using hiragana:
“こくはく の へんじ を またせて は いけない よ。”
Now let’s add in the kanji:
”告白 の 返事 を 待たせて は いけない よ。”
Let’s try one more sentence! What if we want to say… “I at least want an answer…!“?
This time, let’s make it a non-polite sentence! A little bit ruder than a casual sentence would be.
Let’s get the word bank started!
| English | Hiragana / Katakana | Kanji | Romaji (reading) |
| Answer / reply | へんじ | 返事 | Henji |
| At least | ぐらい | N/A | Gurai |
| To want | ほしい | 欲しい | Hoshii |
Alright, let’s make some sentences!
First, using romaji only:
” Henji gurai hoshii na…”
Now using hiragana:
“へんじ ぐらい ほしい な。。。”
Now let’s add in the kanji:
”返事 ぐらい 欲しい な。。。”
And that’s Henji! Have you heard this word before?
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